walaikum assalam jabeen!
aap himmat na haaro, Allah sub sy barha hy.. zaroor koi dua hogi, aap wahan kisi aalim sy bhi raabta karo, Allah k kalaam mein bohat taaseer hy, bus hamara eemaan mazboot hona chahiye.. jub tuk koi dua milti hy aap kasrat sy astaghfaar parho, utthtay bytthtay, cooking, washing, hr waqt aap ki zabaan pe ye zikar jaaree ho. sadqa baar baar dia karo. aap numayaan farq dekhogi in.sha.Allah
i m agree with 'cutebird' .. k, kids apnay hum umron sy bohat seekhtay hain, khana, chalna, sub competition mein hota hy, myn ny aksar maaon ko ye kehtay huay suna
گھر میں تو نہیں پوچھتی یہ باداموں کو .. اور یہاں ایسے کھا رہی ہے جیسے کبھی کھانے کو نہیں دئیے ہم نے
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ab ye sub india pakistan mn tho hota hy, lakin hum pardesi kis k ghar jaen? kis ko apnay ghar bulaen? kisi ko hum watnon ki weekend gatherings mayassar hoti hain,aur kisi ko nahi..
aysy mein maaon k sath sath bachay bhi yaksaniyat ka shikaar ho jatay hn..
phir first baby tho maa k ziada hi qareeb hota hy, maa sochnay ki, darnay ki aadat pe qabu paa k muskurana , khush rehna shuru karday tho bachay ki routine pe, sehet pe acha asar hota hy.
watan sy door naanion, daadion k tajurbay , naseehaton aur daant dapat k baghyr bachon ki parwarish aasaan nahi, aur husband k duty timings b ziada hon tho maa k sath taawwun kon karay?
aap ghabrao nahi, aap akaili nahi ho, Allah ap k sath hy, ye yaqeen dil mein jama lo aur tilawat -e- Quran sy apnay ghar ko ronaq bakhsho, khud b awaz sy parho, aur tv/CD pr b lagaya kro, dar-o-deewaar tuk awaz ponhchaygi tho ghar mn brkat hogi, aameen
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(myn nay tho taqreer hi kar daali..)
is k ilawa tajarbukaar maaon k liay ap in sawalon k jawaab do taakay wo apko behtar guide kar saken
ap k kitnay bachay hain?
ye apki first baby hy?
iska wazan kia hy? aur height?
daant nikaalna aur bolna is ny kis age mein shuru kia tha?
apni age k mutabiq achi khooraak leti hy ya tung karti hy?
family mein aur bhi kisi ny dyr sy chalna shuru kia tha?
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Allah aapki tamaam jaaez haajaat qubool farmae , apko bachi ki trf sy itminan ho aur sukh milay . wo juld khushion k sath , chalna, dorhna shuru karde . khyr o aafiat k sath Allah us k nek naseeb karay aameen.