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Aafiaa Offline
#1 Posted : Saturday, June 09, 2012 5:56:49 AM(UTC)

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Salam

my son is 1.5 year old but he is too weak. and has not started walking yet. please any dua or tips.

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#2 Posted : Saturday, June 09, 2012 4:56:58 PM(UTC)

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Salam

my son is 1.5 year old but he is too weak. and has not started walking yet. please any dua or tips.

thanks

 

WalekumAssalam Aafia sister,

Hope you are doing well inshAllah, sister dont be too worried yet, children are just different they all learn in different ways Maybe your baby is a late developer some children are.How about getting outside with the pushchair, but letting your son push it along for support.

Encourage and help your son to make the first wobbly steps, but never force him because the baby will give you a sign when he is ready to walk.

Try to be patient because every child has his own pace to reach this milestone. Ensure his safety all around the house and encourage him to discover the fun and new experience of walking and soon you will see that he is moving all over the house.

Learning to walk is a long process and according to surveys, your baby needs hundreds of hours of practice from pulling itself up and until they are able to make the first steps on their own....


Healthy Eating Guidelines for Boys aged 1 - 3 years

The Dietary Guidelines for Children and Adolescents in Australia, states that children need sufficient nutritious foods to grow and develop normally. For optimal health they should be encouraged to:

  •     Enjoy a variety of nutritious foods
  •     Eat plenty of vegetables, legumes and fruit
  •     Eat plenty of cereals (breads, rice, pasta, noodles), especially wholegrain varieties
  •     Include lean meat, fish, poultry and / or alternatives (eggs, legumes)
  •     Include milk, yoghurt, cheese and / or alternatives (reduced fat varieties are not suitable for children under 2 years, because of their high energy needs, and should only be encouraged in older children and adolescents when the diet has diversified)
  •     Choose water as a drink.

Care should be taken to:

  1.     Limit saturated fat and moderate total fat intake (low fat diets are not suitable for infants)
  2.     Choose foods low in salt
  3.     Consume only moderate amounts of sugars and foods containing added sugars.

 

Aafia sister,

Five times Namaz/Salah is the most important than any wazaif... and of-course Namaz is must for any Wazaif. Try to perofrm your namaz/salah at time and make dua for health. When we ask Allah (swt) for something, we are acting on our belief that Allah (swt) is our only provider; we are acknowledging and thanking Allah (swt) as the sole source of everything in our lives.  You will be in my prayers, Inshallah everything will be okay..!

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5 times Namaz is must for any wazif.

وَقُل رَّبِّ ٱرۡحَمۡهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِى صَغِيرً۬ا
اے میرے رب جس طرح انہوں(والدین) نے مجھے بچپن سےپالا ہے اسی طرح تو بھی ان پر رحم فرما
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#3 Posted : Sunday, June 10, 2012 3:47:06 AM(UTC)

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Salam Jia
Thanks a lot for ur reply. Yes i offer my prayers regularly.. InshhAllah everything will be fine.
Regards
Aafia
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السّلام علیکم عافیہ !  آپکے بیٹے کا وزن کیا ہے؟ کیا وہ کھانے پینے میں تنگ کرتے ہیں؟ کیا چیز شوق سے کھاتے ہیں؟  [میری نند پوچھ رہی ہیں..]  وہ پانچ بچوں کی امّاں ہیں اور اپنے تجربے کی بنیاد پر .. انہوں نے آپکے بیٹے کے لئیے ٹانگوں کی مالش تجویز کی ہے، زیتون کے تیل کی مالش۔ .. اور غذا کے بارے میں یہ مشورہ دیا ہے: "ایک پاوَ سوجی کو سَو گرام مکھن میں بھون کے ایک جار میں رکھ لیں، اور حسبِ ضرورت [دن میں دو تین بار] اسکی کھیر، روز  بنا کے اسکو کھلائیں، اسمیں سے ایک ٹیبل سپون سوجی ، ایک کپ پانی اور نمک ملا کر پکائیں یہاں تک کہ سوجی گل جائے۔ اور اگر اسکو میٹھا ذائقہ پسند ہو تو پانی اور نمک کی جگہ دودھ اور چینی ملا کر پکالیں۔"  

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#5 Posted : Wednesday, June 13, 2012 5:00:11 AM(UTC)

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Walaikum asslam
Bohat bohat shukrya for your reply us ka wazan 11.5 kg hay.. Jee taang kerta hay khanay peenay may.. Healthy cheezain naii khata.. Sweet cheezain mangta hay..
May insHallah zaroor try kerun gee yeah sooji wali.. Or malish bhi kertee hoon magar koi khaas way hay or din may kitni bar malish kerni hay..agar app pooch dain... Un kay saray bachoon may koi late chala tha.. May doctor kay ppas bhi ja raee hun but uk may bohat slow hy peocess. Is liay may nay soocha pooch loon sab say koi cheez.

Bohat thanks once again i am very worried..
JazalAllah
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ok, in.sha.Allah myn juld maloom kr k batati hoon.
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السلام و علیکم

جزاک اللہ بجّو آپ کے مفید مشوروں کا سوجی کی کھیر واقعی صحت بخش ہے
عافیہ بہن آپ سوجی دودھ اور چینی میں پکا کر کھلائیں انشاللہ آپ کا بیٹا شوق سے کھائے گا شروع میں ہوسکتا ہے تنگ کرے لیکن آپ نے بہت طریقوں سے بہلا کر مختلف اوقات میں دینا ہے تاکہ وہ جلد بیزار نہ ہو


وَقُل رَّبِّ ٱرۡحَمۡهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِى صَغِيرً۬ا
اے میرے رب جس طرح انہوں(والدین) نے مجھے بچپن سےپالا ہے اسی طرح تو بھی ان پر رحم فرما
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#8 Posted : Thursday, June 14, 2012 4:36:07 AM(UTC)

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imbajoo app nai buhaat achee cheese batein hai...merey bete be buhaat weak thai...appney umar kay kids say buhaat ziyada weak our chote lagte thai...plus oss ke height be kam thai our woh theething be nahe kar rahe thai.......tu main nai be appney bete ko "SOOJEE KE KHEER" daily banna kay dannay lagee tu kuch he months main oss ke health be improve howee our oss ke height be nikalna start hoo gee.....our haan main nai ossay multivitamin with fish oil kay saat be diya...yaqeen janay merey bete abb 2 saal ke honay walee hai...our oss he health abb buhaat achee hoo gee hai....
afiaa dear app be assa he karein our haan bazar kay ceareal kay bajay appey bachay ko ghar ke koi pudding..yah he sooge ke kheer khalaein inshallah in few days app ka bata healthy hoo jay gaa...but remember always every kid is diffrent from another kid........so dont take tension...
our surrah yaseen par kar panni main below kar kay iss ka pani appnay batay ko din main many times drink karnay ko doo fider main dall kay woh theek hoo gay gaa....plus oss ke boody ke oilve oil and almond oil mix kar kay massage karoo .....aggar weather hot hai tu mustard oil lay loo...inshallah aik he month main app diffreants feel karoo gee.
byee
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#9 Posted : Thursday, June 14, 2012 6:39:24 AM(UTC)

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Salam cutebirds..

Thank so much all of u . I was so stressed out. But Allah ka shukar hay kay app logon nay help ki...it feels so gud after reading tips. I will start InshAllah.. May yehan london may akailii hoon is liay kpi knowledge nai. Tu bohat help howee. Agar koi or bhii tips pata chalay tu zaroor batayiy ga.

Allah app sab ko ajar dain. Ameen
Aafia
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its ok dear soojee ke kher say bachay ke health buhaat ache hoo jay gee......our agar app london main hain tu yah tu our acha hai app ke health vistior tu app ko guide kar he rahe hoo gee......agar nahe tu health vistor pay lay kar joo ossy our phir iss kay check up kay baad zaroor koi na koi vitamin app ko recomend karay gee....our ossy bahir be lay kar joo jassa keh toy library ta keh oss ke social activites barhain....bachay aik dosray kay dakha kar be khatain hain our play kartay hain.
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Salaam

I have a 3 year old daughter who is not walking, at first she was weak and was unable too. She gets around by crawling and will not walk or stand on her own due to fear. Even the physiotherapist says she won't walk as she has no confidence and is scared, does anyone know of any dua to get rid of this fear of hers so she can walk. As I am very worried now. I understand chuldren walk at different stages however she is 3 now.

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walaikum assalam jabeen!
aap himmat na haaro, Allah sub sy barha hy.. zaroor koi dua hogi, aap wahan kisi aalim sy bhi raabta karo, Allah k kalaam mein bohat taaseer hy, bus hamara eemaan mazboot hona chahiye.. jub tuk koi dua milti hy aap kasrat sy astaghfaar parho, utthtay bytthtay, cooking, washing, hr waqt aap ki zabaan pe ye zikar jaaree ho. sadqa baar baar dia karo. aap numayaan farq dekhogi in.sha.Allah
i m agree with 'cutebird' .. k,  kids apnay hum umron sy bohat seekhtay hain, khana, chalna, sub competition mein hota hy, myn ny aksar maaon ko ye kehtay huay suna
گھر میں تو نہیں پوچھتی یہ باداموں کو .. اور یہاں ایسے کھا رہی ہے جیسے کبھی کھانے کو نہیں دئیے ہم نے
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ab ye sub india pakistan mn tho hota hy, lakin hum pardesi kis k ghar jaen? kis ko apnay ghar bulaen? kisi ko hum watnon ki weekend gatherings mayassar hoti hain,aur kisi ko nahi.. 
aysy mein maaon k sath sath bachay bhi yaksaniyat ka shikaar ho jatay hn..
phir first baby tho maa k ziada hi qareeb hota hy, maa sochnay ki, darnay ki aadat pe qabu paa k muskurana , khush rehna shuru karday tho bachay ki routine pe, sehet pe acha asar hota hy.
watan sy door naanion, daadion k tajurbay , naseehaton aur daant dapat k baghyr bachon ki parwarish aasaan nahi, aur husband k duty timings b ziada hon tho maa k sath taawwun kon karay? 
aap ghabrao nahi, aap akaili nahi ho, Allah ap k sath hy, ye yaqeen dil mein jama lo aur tilawat -e- Quran sy apnay ghar ko ronaq bakhsho, khud b awaz sy parho, aur tv/CD pr b lagaya kro, dar-o-deewaar tuk awaz ponhchaygi tho ghar mn brkat hogi, aameen
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(myn nay tho taqreer hi kar daali..)
is k ilawa tajarbukaar maaon k liay ap in sawalon k jawaab do taakay wo apko behtar guide kar saken
ap k kitnay bachay hain?
ye apki first baby hy?
iska wazan kia hy? aur height?
daant nikaalna aur bolna is ny kis age mein shuru kia tha?
apni age k mutabiq achi khooraak leti hy ya tung karti hy?
family mein aur bhi kisi ny dyr sy chalna shuru kia tha?
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Allah aapki tamaam jaaez haajaat qubool farmae , apko bachi ki trf sy itminan ho aur sukh milay . wo juld khushion k sath , chalna, dorhna shuru karde . khyr o aafiat k sath Allah us k nek naseeb karay aameen.

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Aafiaa! mujhay dyr hoti ja rahi hy , very sorry . us k baad sy skype pr apni nund sy meri mulaqat hui hi nahi, jabhi myn apnay waaday k mutabiq un sy pooch k apko nahi bata paee.
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#14 Posted : Sunday, June 17, 2012 9:36:02 AM(UTC)

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salam
no problem. ap nay pahlay itna acha tip bataya hay may apnay baitay ko day rahee hoon. bohat thanks..dua may yaad rakhiay ga.
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aafiah! abhi baat hui meri apni nund sy, wo keh rahi hain k maalish ka koi khaas way nahi, aap jesay routine mn krti hain wohi jaaree rakhen, aur ye k un k bachon mn sy kisi nay dyr sy chalna tho nahi shuru kia tha, albatta kamzore bohat thy, jaldi beemaar parh jatay thy, is khooraak sy , alhamdulillah un sbki sehet b achi hui aur quwwat-e-mudaafeat bhi barhee.

jabeen! aj apki post bhi myn nay unko parhaee ..

ittifaq sy pichlay dino un ki aik nund america sy  karachi wapas aaee hain, wo apnay pyron k dard sy bohat pareshan theen, unhon nay karachi mein aik jaga ki tareef sun kar wahan ilaj karaya tho bohat faaeda hua hy.. unhon nay sub k faaeday k liay relatives aur milnay waalon mein 1 pamphlet baanta hy .. wo meri nund nay abhi chatting mein parh k sunaya .. aur likhwaya hy.. 

aap bhi apnay ghar waalon sy keh kar yahan raabta kar k dekhiye aur bachi ki kaifiyat bataiye.. wo therapy bhi krtay hain aur koi oil bhi detay hain.

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pamphlet mein ye likha hy..

knee pain, back pain,

gardan k mohron ki taklif,
falij, arqun nisa
uthnay bythnay mein taklif
haddion jorhon aur rug patthon sy mutalliq ,
gatthiya, frozen shoulder, aur jismani mazoori ka ilaj Vein Therapy k zariay kiya jata 
-VTWF-
Vein Therapy Walfare Foundation
Haaji Abul Hasan sahab : 0300 22 97 819
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(national stadium,
haydri,
water pump,
golimaar,
aur J block mein un k clinics hain. jin k address aur contact numbers bhi isi pamphlet mein likhay hain)

 

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السلام علیکم جبین ! میری بڑی نند نے یہ دعا بتائی ہے آپکے لئیے ۔۔

اللھم اجرنی فی مصیبتی واخلف لی خیرا منھا۔

مَیں آپکے لئیے یہ دعا  اعراب کے ساتھ ڈھونڈ رہی تھی کہ مجھے یہ لنک مِلی،

http://urdunama.org/foru...opic.php?f=56&t=1100


 اِن صاحبہ کی باتوں سے مجھے بہت حوصلہ ہُوا، مَیں نے سوچا فی الحال آپکو یہی بتادیتی ہوں ، جلد یہ دعا اعراب کے ساتھ بھی ڈھونڈ کر آپکو بتادونگی ۔ انشاءاللہ 

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اسکے علاوہ میری نند نے پوچھا ہے کہ آپ نے بچی کو واکر میں بٹھایا ہے ؟ انکا کہنا ہے کہ اب بھی واکر ہی مفید ہے اُسکا  ڈر بھی نکلے گا اور ایکسرسائز بھی ہوجائیگی۔ انہوں نے زیتون کے تیل کی مالش کا کہا ہے اور یہ بھی کہ اس تیل پر روز صبح 41 بار سورۃ فاتحہ اسطرح پڑھ کے دم کریں  کہ

 ہر دفعہ "بسم اللہ الرّحمٰن الرّحیم"   کے "م" کے ساتھ "الحمد للہ"  کا  "ل" مِلائیے [۔۔ مِ الحمدللہ رب العٰلمین ۔۔ آخر تک پوری سورہ] اور تیل لگاتے ہوئے کبھی گیارہ اور کبھی اکتالیس بار[جب جیسی سہولت ہو] سورہ الناس پڑھتے رہیں -

مَیں نے اپنی پھپوجان سے بھی کہا ہے وہ بھی آپکے لئیے دعا ڈھونڈ رہی ہیں، ہم سب آپکے لئیے اور آپکی بیٹی کے لئیے دعاگو ہیں۔ اللہ قبول فرمائے آمین۔

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salaam,

bajjo wo post delete ho gai hy.

ya aarab theik hy.

jazakiLLAH

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وعلیکم السّلام

جزاک اللہ خیر 

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یہ دعا بہت اچھی اور آزمودہ ہے، پچھلے کچھ عرصے میں ۔۔ ہم سب نے مختلف مواقع پر  اسکے بہترین نتائج دیکھے ہیں۔

"فضائلِ اعمال" میں لکھا ہے :اُمُّ المومنین ، حضرت اُمّ سلمہ رضی اللہ عنہا

سے روایت ہے کہ "مَیں نے حضور صلّی اللہ علیہ وسلّم سے سُنا تھا کہ {جس شخص کو کوئی مصیبت پہنچے اور وہ یہ دعا کرے ۔۔۔ ترجمہ:اے اللہ مجھے اس مصیبت میں اجر عطا فرما اور اسکا نعم البدل نصیب فرما تو اسکو اللہ جلّ شانہ بہترین بدل عطا فرماتے ہیں }  ابو سلمہ رضی اللہ عنہ کے انتقال پر مَیں نے یہ دعا تو پڑھ لی تھی ، مگر یہ سوچتی تھی کہ ابو سلمہ رضی اللہ عنہ سے بہتر کون ہوسکتا ہے ۔اللہ نے حضور صلّی اللہ علیہ وسلّم سے نکاح کرادیا"

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Asslam o Alaikum bajjo .. MashAllah bohat achi dua hay.. Is ko khula perhna hay .. Or bachay kay chalnay kay liay bhii perh saltay hain Thanks Salam
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